Let me tell y’all what’s NOT a compliment. Seeing someone in a relationship (or hell just someone in general) get dragged for their appearance and then being like “OMG maybe it’s not about looks! Maybe his girlfriend likes him for who he is.” Or “HEY! I’m sure she has a great personality! He probably doesn’t care how she looks!” Like huh? Are you defending this person from the insults or just adding fuel to the fire sweetie? It’s basically just another way of saying (and a poor attempt to sugar-coat) that you think they’re ugly and that their partner can’t possibly be physically attracted to them.
And I’m sure most of the people who say shit like this KNOW what they’re doing. They just want to write whole ass think pieces while being indirect and fake nice about it. 🤎